“God, give us grace to accept with serenity the things that cannot be changed, courage to change the things which should be changed, and the wisdom to distinguish the one from the other.”
question is, what can change and what is just hardwired into us. that does not change no matter what.
I think it more a case of how we look at some thing than our trying to some or another, to our way.
the thought which always comes to mind for me is about Love being about being acceptive of another's as is. as well as our own selves. and seeing how the cosmos is always on the side of a healing . . . I myself always opt for the silence in which we can just let our mind work through what ever is ailing us. . and let the cosmos work its magic as it does in our sleep. . . a simple speak of our conscious reality cannot interfere with the task of spirit working overtime and blitching through prepping us for the next day.